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Enhance Your Relationship with Laughter
Cheap ways to strengthen your marriage.
Several years ago, my wife and I had come to an impasse in our relationship. I was detached and living in my career; something men often do, and my wife was into other things like kids, bible studies and other things that ladies do. I wish I could tell you that I suggested some counseling, but no, I was too proud and bone-headed to do that. It was my wife who strongly encouraged me to make a call. Our counselor was a wise man who helped us learn to re-negotiate our marriage and reconnect. As we wrapped up therapy, he made a comment that surprised and encouraged us. He said, “Angie and John, like many couples that come to see me, you guys were way off track, but even in some of the tougher sessions you both maintained a healthy sense of humor. That let me know that you two are going to make it. You two have a unique ability to enhance your relationship with laughter.
Those encouraging words were a gift to us nearly 35 years ago and have sustained us through the ebbs and flows of our marriage. In the next few minutes I am going to give you a few tips on how to enhance your relationship with laughter.
Humor, laughter, and joy have a powerful effect on health and well-being. It alleviates tension and stress, boosts the mood, raises creativity, and provides an excellent, drug-free energy…